Q&A;: I Need My Ex Girlfriend Back, What Can I Do?
Q: I need my ex girlfriend back, but she’s dating a new guy already. They seem so happy together. Does this mean that she’s over me and that I have no chance of getting her back?
A: Not by a long shot! You see, your ex girlfriend is in a rebound relationship. There are a lot of emotions that she probably still needs to process from the break up, but she isn’t able to deal with them as long as she is distracted by her new relationship.
It’s not a matter of if but when all of those emotions will come to the surface and demand her attention. When this happens, it will place a significant amount of stress on her new relationship. This is the main reason why rebound relationships rarely work.
So don’t write yourself off yet. Even though they may seem perfectly happy, appearances can be deceiving and her new relationship could just be a ticking time bomb waiting to go off.
Q: My ex girlfriend acts so mean to me. Sometimes she tells me that she never really cared for me, but I know that this isn’t true. I need my ex girlfriend back, but how can she love me when she seems to despise me so much?
A: Although things may seem dark right now, I want you to remember that the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. Even if your ex girlfriend downright hates you right now, that is better than being completely apathetic about you.
It is a lot easier to flip negative feelings back to love than it is to rekindle a relationship from feelings of indifference.
Give your ex girlfriend time to feel what she needs to feel. It’s not uncommon for people to voice their frustration with their ex after a break up, and that is probably what she is doing right now. Keep this in mind and don’t let her cutting words impact you too much right now.
Q: What can I do if I feel completely lost and hopeless without my girlfriend? I need my ex girlfriend back. Sometimes I feel like I just can’t get through the day.
A: Hey, I know where you’re coming from. I really do. I was there myself, and I know what it feels like to shuffle through your day in a sort of apathetic daze feeling like you just need her back.
But I want you to understand that one way or another, you will make it through this.
Maybe you’ll get her back; maybe you won’t. But you WILL survive this. I know that in the moment life can seem very dark, but you will be able to find joy again.
The point is to keep this in perspective. A year from now, you’ll be in a completely different state of mind. This will pass in time whether you get her back or not. The important thing is to use this as a point of reflection so that you can see if you are really living your life the way you want to and being the person you truly want to be.
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